EBS, Memories
Today’s date is January 26, 1995. Time is 8:49 am. I’m just sitting around thinking. I have some heavy duty decisions to make today. The big one is, Which day is best to go fishing. Of equal importance is, Should I buy a new boat. Then again, maybe I will just take out the trash. On the other hand, I think I will write something about my past experiences. It’s still pretty cold outside.
I am currently 68 years old. My wife is 69. I retired at age 65. Martie and I have enjoyed our retirement. We continue to enjoy good health and are planning our 50th year anniversary celebration. We are fortunate to have a very nice home and ample cash resources to enjoy our retirement.
I am the fifth son of Minnie and Ander Sheppard. The first-born child died at age 2. I have three surviving brothers; Elmer Clifton, 79, of Jacksonville, FL; George Washington, 76, of Melbourne, FL; and Winn Chester, 72, also of Melbourne, FL. I am the youngest of the group, possible the most handsome and intelligent.
As the story goes, I was born in Helena, GA on September 5, 1926 at home, and as I understand, my mother was fortunate to have a doctor present. My birth weight was 13 pounds. If my mother ever forgave me for that, she shouldn’t have. I grew up as most south Georgia children did. Nothing special about that. These years of my youth were Depression years. Times were hard, no money and no jobs. Everyone did the best they could. The election of Roosevelt in 1932 probably saved the South and the nation.
I attended McRae-Helena Grammar and High School. I was able to complete seven years and about half of my eighth year of formal education. I was not a very good student. Always loved the outside, and wanted to be somewhere else. I don’t believe I ever really understood why I had to go to school. However, I did find out later.
My mother was the main force in my life. She supplied the discipline and made things happen. My father was part Indian and as Indians are prone do – love children with little or no discipline. Mother died when I was twelve years old and in the sixth grade. I completed that grade and the seventh. But lost interest and dropped out about halfway through the eighth.
The year I left school 1941 was the year, our country entered WW2. In early ‘41 I figured that the army was the place for me. My older brother was in the army. He was doing great. Why not me? Trouble was I was only 14. Had to figure something out about that. Answer – I advanced my age to 17. Changed my birth year. No problem. They took me in and seemed glad to have me. About a month after my induction, the U.S. entered into WW2. At the time I didn’t worry too much about that. Figured since I was in the army I might as well save mankind from Germany and Japan. As I was to find out later, that task was somewhat more difficult than I imagined.
I received my training in Ft. Knox, Kentucky. Big guns, heavy armor. I thought those 30 ton tanks were about the greatest thing around. Couldn’t wait to get my hands on one of those. Got my chance. Qualified as a driver. Off to liberate the world.
Our first stop was Northern Ireland. Then on to England. Then on to the invasion of North Africa. Didn’t get killed in Africa so onto Italy to try again. Didn’t get killed there either. But the Germans came closer, much closer. Was hurt on the Anzio Beachhead. Was sent home and discharged one month before I was old enough to be drafted.
To sum up my service time. I served 37 months in the army – 34 months overseas. I saw this time as a great adventure. I enjoyed it all except the time actually spent in combat. I wouldn’t want to do it again.
Life is a funny thing. A person dreams about how things will be. They don’t work out the way you dream. And you are very disappointed. Many times I am glad that God runs our lives.
Left up to us, we sure wouldn’t do such a good job of it. As most soldiers, I dreamed of returning home, marrying the childhood sweetheart, settling down, and raising a family. That didn’t work for me as I’m sure it didn’t work for most other people.
Anyway, I gave it a shot. Couldn’t get a decent job. Couldn’t get along with girlfriend or her family. Swore off women and Georgia. Left town to visit my sister-in-law in far away Jacksonville, Fla. For some unknown reason I was accompanied by my brother Chester on this particular trip, which probably wasn’t one of his better ideas.
Upon arrival in Jacksonville, old Chester and I were directed to meet our sister-in-law, Thelma, as she got off from work. We were to get supper downtown and see some of the city. Since there were two of us and one of Thelma, she decided to bring along a friend. This friend being Martha Hurlbert. Now this friend, Martha, was a pretty young girl. Remember now, I was through with women. So I took Thelma’s arm and left Martha to brother Chester. Over the next week we were together several times. I didn’t think I was paying much attention to Martha or she to me for that matter. Time marches on.
The time came to leave. I decided to get a job in Jacksonville. Chester decided to return to Georgia. I found a job in sales. This job required traveling over much of the Southeast USA. I thought this was a good job and I especially liked the traveling part. I was scheduled to leave Jax on a Sunday and Chester was to return to Georgia the same day. Late Saturday afternoon I decided to make one last visit to my sis-in-law’s home to say goodby. I made the trip but upon my arrival, found my brother and Thelma had left for a movie. No one knew which one. While I was sitting around feeling sorry about missing them, this Martha Hurlbert girl came in looking for them also. Keep in mind now, I had sworn off women.
As it happened, we discovered that she was there, I was there. You know, girl and boy stuff. We decided to pool our money and go to the movie on our own. Seemed as if it would work out. The idea was so great we decided to try it. We walked to the movie. Then I walked her home. During this time, I discovered that she was not a girl. She was a very healthy young woman. Lots of fun to be with. Highly intelligent. I felt that she had all the good qualities a man could find in a woman. Especially the qualities my mother told me to look for in a life mate. Also I found that she had sworn off men. For two people who had sworn off everything, we were more or less complicating the sworn off situation.
During the course of that evening we talked of many things. Her life. My life. Where we wanted to go. What we wanted to do. And apparently liked what we said to each other. She asked why I was leaving. I don’t remember my response. She said she would like for me to stay. Pointed out that I could find a good job in Jax. Said she would help me find a place to live. That was the only slight push I needed. I retrieved my belongings. She supplied that assistance and encouragement as promised. Six weeks later we were married in her home and started our life in one rented room off Park St. in Jacksonville, Fla. On April 7, 1995, this year, we will have been married to each other for fifty years. She was everything I thought she was and more.
Martie and I were married by a Presbyterian minister. This minister was pastor of the church she attended. So he was the natural choice for the wedding. I really liked the Presbyterian church and the preacher. This was to influence my Christian activities for the rest of my life.
I was brought up in the Baptist church. The Baptist preachers were always screaming at me, telling me I was a sinner, and was going to Hell. I couldn’t understand this philosophy, still don’t. The Presbyterian minister didn’t scream at me. Taught Christian logic and said if you wanted to believe in something – know what it was and then proceed. This seemed the right way for me.